sloth and panda. count our fingers.

Homies day out!

Saturday, 30 May 2009

10:49

Animal outing!

Sloth, River and Panda went to Healthland for a massage, as they all agreed they needed one. We were watching TV in the massage room and Sloth kept laughing, which made River laugh. Panda stayed calm and collected and almost slept :).

Then we went to Siam for Sloth to get a charming fur cut. The Sloth trimmed his fur only a little. And although we didn't tell him this, after walking around Siam trying to find a bow-tie for the Sloth and after finding a place in Paragon, the Panda and the River settled in 'Whittard' and we both waited for him with a smoothie in our hands.

Then we ate dinner at Cafe Chilli, a Thai restaurant. We waited an hour for the chicken. We concluded the delayed happened because they were still finding a spear to hunt down the chicken.

Then we saw Bebe and her dog, So Hee, at doggy town. So Hee is adorable and looks like a bear. Although So Hee doesn't get along with Sloth that much. She barked at him. Multiple times.

Then we went to the toilet. HAHA.

Then we went upstairs to check bow ties for the Sloth. The Sloth didn't find any that he liked in particular as he wanted to tie them himself. We left with nothing.

Then we went to the BTS station, but it was overcrowded and so decided to take a taxi to Chidlom station. (Because of Panda). Turns out there weren't any taxis. They were picky and it seemed like everyone was leaving at the same time. We took a tuk-tuk to Chidlom instead, and even then we had to walk quite a bit before we got there. On the tuk-tuk ride Sloth and Panda were dominating this word search game on Sloth's blackberry. They made a high score...YAY.

At Chidlom, the Panda got her BTS ticket and departed from the Sloth and the River.

The Sloth and the River took a taxi home. (The Panda thinks.)

The Panda.

Targets for Friday.

Thursday, 28 May 2009

10:05

The Panda's targets:

1. Finish Biology revision.

2. Do all 3 literature questions

The Sloth's targets (who seems more ambitious than the Panda):

1. Scan through Business Studies.

2. 30 pages of "Mocking Bird"

3. Lit. essay

4. Revision on any Science. Depending on mood.

P-Reply #4

01:49

This is what you THINK you are:

But you are not a failure.

You are not a failure.

YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE!

Think about it. It wouldn't be any different even if another guy was in your position. I don't think it would be any different if another guy was with your Little Moon, she would still act that way. YOU do not fail because she feels that way. You fail if you freak out about it and start to lose trust in your relationship. Trust yourself and trust her.

Keep talking to her. Try to ask her indirectly what's OK and what's not, and be polite and charming about it. When you're a couple you're supposed to be open, in whatever circumstance. Maybe that's just me. I think I've seen and heard everything to feel comfortable talking about it with FK. (Yes, even disgusting things.)

Girls love to expect that guys will always make the first move. So make it, and don't always expect her to know what to do. Guys always think we know what we're doing. Problem is, we're so confused ourselves. And really, movies make it seem too easy for a girl to know what to do all the time. We don't know. We don't even know what we want half the time. So just go with the flow, and just keep on being a gentleman. She'll see this in no time, and she'll appreciate your approach and patience. Go at a pace where she feels comfortable.

You have to be patient. I can't stress that enough.

The Panda.

I feel like.... a Failure

Wednesday, 27 May 2009

18:46

I feel like a failure

I feel like a failure!

Its somehow sad. you know?

When even your girlfriend feels uncomfortable around you.

its like. EVEN YOUR GF FEELS LIKE THAT.

How would others think?

hur hur. I don't know.

I don't know whether I should sit alone and think this through.

or just let it be.

I really want this relationship to last. But after last night.

I am asking myself questions like:

"does she even like me?"

I know i should be happy, and enjoy this relationship.

I AM happy.

i have to be honest,

I did not even hope for a "Yes" when I told her.

and now....

i don't know what i should do once again.

I don't know if i should bring the topic back up tonight

and talk to her about it again.

but then,

Should i just give her a break and give her more time.

I really don't know.

I am a failure

I am a FAILURE

The Sloth.

60 things about guys.

12:51

READ THIS. I think you might get to know yourself a bit better. I was ticking almost the whole list off when I was thinking of FK. Ignore the ones about...s-e-x and stuff. Read it nonetheless! Some of it applies to you too!

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're going to say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile when they’re attracted to them

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's
too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of us.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

53. We love it when girls talk about their ass.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy , like whether it's a one time deal or not .

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. It may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours.

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually.

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it, it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that after you let him know a couple times.

60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

P-Reply #3

09:45

Don't ask her to change.

Don't change yourself.

If I know you, I know you fell in love with her. Don't ask her to change.

It's not about changing yourself to fit one another. Try to find that middle space you both fit in, you know. I know you understand maths really well because you got that A* last year so I'll try to explain it this way...like a Venn diagram. A relationship between A intersect B. Yet A still exists and B still exists...and both circles co-exist together, and unite in the middle. :)

Hope this provoked some thoughts.

The Panda.

saddddd dude.

06:34

PANDAAAAA!!!! hur hur hur

I secretly feel bad. VERY bad.

I confronted her about the holding hands matter as you know.

and i got a really dissapointing answer.

I then asked her if she feels uncomfortable around me.

the answer was fine. But once again I feel like shes not tell me the truth.

I don't know if there is anything I can do about it.

I really want her to like me the way i like her.

I know its quite impossible and i have to change for her.

however, I am sort of scared to ask her to change for me.

I am at this point where i don't really know what to do.

*SIGHHHHH*

Panda you dont have to answer this if you dont want to. i just felt like..

blabberring...

The Sloth.

P-Reply #2

Tuesday, 26 May 2009

05:10

Dear Sloth,

First of all...Saturday sounds good. Do we need reservations?

Second of all...CHILL. I think I can conclude that she's a person who likes the thought of having someone in a relationship, but it's not like she'll commit herself to you all the time like you do to her. She's one to want the space, but know that you're still within reach. I really think you need to learn to compromise. Find that medium you're both comfortable in and seriously, if it's bugging you so much, confront her about it. I always say things to FK and allow him to mull over it for a few days, and he does it to me as well, and then we actually get to talk more openly with each other. What's a relationship if you guys don't understand each other? And keep doing the same mistakes over again until you can't take it anymore? Talk to each other. Be comfortable to talk about it, and don't be pushy or pouty. Just talk.

Third, let's talk about my relationship. As usual, I was skyping with FK yesterday. Sometimes it feels like falling in love all over again but I still get that feeling. And as cliched as this sounds, it's really not him, it's me. Oh, and 11 days to our 1-year anniversary. One year's such a long time and I don't want to ruin anything. Since he's been saying so much that he has so much confident in us, and he's always saying to his friends that "we know each other so well, it's amazing". I'm slowly killing myself knowing that he's so good to me. I don't have a question to ask you on this matter. Guess I just wanted to express my feelings.

Fourth, I haven't started revision for ANYTHING. All I did in the past week was read (non-school text book stuff), shop, watch movies, and eat. And more reading. Like seriously more than a thousand pages in total. Ugh. I dislike myself.

See you tomorrow in English.

REMINDER: do some revision, if you're in the mood. Don't disappoint Grandpa Grimes.

PS. If you can't reach me on my phone I might be sleeping. I'm so tired...for no reason.

The Panda.

massageee :D and..hur hur

04:54

Pandaaaa

Ermm how about saturday? like... 2pm?

I dunno.. hahaha

Anyway ... todayyy i feel bad AGAIN = =

she promised to go watch the damn movie with me on thursday.

but instead she went with her friends while i was playing football.

haishhhhhh WHYYYY

The Sloth...

Panda: Massage.

Monday, 25 May 2009

09:55

Dear Sloth,

I think we really need to go to 'Health Land' for that massage we were talking about.

Name the date and time and I'll be there!

(Dude, my neck hurts so much.)

The Panda.

P-Reply #1

Sunday, 24 May 2009

09:04

Dear Sloth,

Girls like freedom. Girls like comfort. Girls like being pleased, and they definitely like it when things turn out their way. But that doesn't mean you should always please them or do everything to satisfy them. I mean sure, roses and chocolate and an occasional teddy bear's always cute, but give her opportunities to let her show you how much YOU mean to her too. Sometimes, you gotta step up and tell them what you want from your side of the relationship. And not sound totally selfish.

And I was glad that you did exactly that yesterday.

You did the right thing.

All of us want the love and care. All of us want the attention. Perhaps the way she ignores you is a test to see if you would care, if you would even pick up that phone to check if she's still there. I'm not sure.

Maybe you should explain to her...talk to her truthfully that sometimes there has to be "Us" time too. You should say that there are days when we have "me" time, but you're both in this relationship together. I can't say this enough to a lot of couples: COMPROMISE.

But if she's not ready then let it be. It's a good thing to meet a girl and know that she's not one to use the word "love" easily. Because oh boy, when she does, she'll mean it. She'll mean it when she says it, and you'll know it. It'll be worth it. Like there'll actually be cupids floating around your head singing love songs when you hear her saying it. I exaggerate, but I bet you'll still be jumping up and down.

Give her time and be patient about it. Girls hate it when people rush them to do things they don't want to do...yet. Respectively, love takes time, and if you want it to last long, you've got to hold on even longer to build the bases of your love.

Patience is a virtue my dear sloth.

The Panda.

A response to your blog post.

Problems problems and more problemssss... that i cant solve..

05:10

Todayyyyyyyyyyyy.... wasn't the best day ever..

In the morning...

my little moon had to apologise to me for letting me wait,

while she was playing monopoly last night till midnight.

I wasn't really angry at her, but i wanted her to realise something...

something that I can't explain myself.....

is it the fact that i wanted more attention from her?

more care from her?

or just simply for her to realise that she made me wait till midnight,

and that she preferred monopoly over me.

Sometimes.. I feel like.. i miss her... ok not sometimes..

well most of the time.

but before i make that phone call,

i will question myself... why is it always me that misses her.

and not her that misses me.

Is it because the fact that i am not that important in her life at the moment? i don't know.

maybe it takes time. maybe i need to give her time.

for her to love me as much as i love her.

hmm....or maybe..

I am thinking wayyy too much again.

The Sloth.

huhuhu :P

Saturday, 23 May 2009

08:54

hellloooo!!! (((:

tanyaaaaaa our blog needs a nice skin!!!

and a sloth like me...don't know how to chg the skinn!!!

hahahaha :P

is this the first blog post?? if it is.. then HA!

bubbye

The Sloth