Dear Sloth,
Girls like freedom. Girls like comfort. Girls like being pleased, and they definitely like it when things turn out their way. But that doesn't mean you should always please them or do everything to satisfy them. I mean sure, roses and chocolate and an occasional teddy bear's always cute, but give her opportunities to let her show you how much YOU mean to her too. Sometimes, you gotta step up and tell them what you want from your side of the relationship. And not sound totally selfish.
And I was glad that you did exactly that yesterday.
You did the right thing.
All of us want the love and care. All of us want the attention. Perhaps the way she ignores you is a test to see if you would care, if you would even pick up that phone to check if she's still there. I'm not sure.
Maybe you should explain to her...talk to her truthfully that sometimes there has to be "Us" time too. You should say that there are days when we have "me" time, but you're both in this relationship together. I can't say this enough to a lot of couples: COMPROMISE.
But if she's not ready then let it be. It's a good thing to meet a girl and know that she's not one to use the word "love" easily. Because oh boy, when she does, she'll mean it. She'll mean it when she says it, and you'll know it. It'll be worth it. Like there'll actually be cupids floating around your head singing love songs when you hear her saying it. I exaggerate, but I bet you'll still be jumping up and down.
Give her time and be patient about it. Girls hate it when people rush them to do things they don't want to do...yet. Respectively, love takes time, and if you want it to last long, you've got to hold on even longer to build the bases of your love.
Patience is a virtue my dear sloth.
The Panda.
A response to your blog post.
Sloth and Panda.